QUESTIONS OF CALLING

unearthing beauty, mining meaning, and seeking truth

This is a place for anyone who wants more, who is not content to be comfortable, who seeks a life of truth and meaning, not just happiness.

Here, we ask hard questions, tell true stories, and turn life inside out to unearth the ragged beauty within.

I’m honored to have you to join me.

How Separating Internal and External Change Can Transform Your Writing—and Your Life
writing craft, personal growth Mara Eller writing craft, personal growth Mara Eller

How Separating Internal and External Change Can Transform Your Writing—and Your Life

I learned something recently that feels simultaneously mind-blowing and also like something I’ve known for ages:

A bittersweet ending results from the combination of a negative external change plus a positive internal change.

Let me explain.

Every story operates on two levels: internal and external. . . .

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Beauty in the Unexpected
emotional health Mara Eller emotional health Mara Eller

Beauty in the Unexpected

If you’re like me, you rely daily on an illusion of control. For most of us, the last five months have shattered that illusion.

This week I did some searching, and amidst the muck of unexpected difficulties and the slime of impossible decisions, I found some unexpected beauty and meaning blossoming—flowers fertilized by all the sh*t we have been wading through, blooms I never would have seen if all had gone according to my plan.

Here is what I found.

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