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Good Thoughts on Feeling Bad: What If We Stop Chasing Happiness?
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Good Thoughts on Feeling Bad: What If We Stop Chasing Happiness?

What if feeling bad sometimes is just part of the human experience rather than something to avoid, fix, or berate oneself about?

As an Enneagram 4, I’m pretty adept at embracing negative emotions (rather than denying, distracting, or quick-fixing). But I am realizing that I’ve nevertheless picked up the habit of feeling guilty or disappointed in myself for having those bad feelings—seeing them as a sign that either I’m doing something wrong with my life or, worse, I’m somehow broken . . .

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